
For most anglers, fly fishing means being alone together.
If that sounds more than a little confusing, it is because it is an oxymoron when written or said… but it is certainly something that anyone who fishes understands. Fly fishing is all about solitude, but we love to share that experience with others.
Recently, I’ve written about and discussed how fly fishing is my preferred conduit for forming and building relationships. Whether it be father-son (or mother-daughter, etc.) time, getting together with the people from the TU chapter, or just bumping into someone on the water, it works. I’ve used it quite a bit personally, and I’ve resolved to use it more in a professional capacity.
Why does this matter? To put it bluntly, because relationships matter. In fact, I’d go so far as to say that people matter a whole lot more than fly fishing. At the same time, fly fishing can be an excellent point of contact for people. Sharing the pursuit of fish with friends and acquaintances gives the pursuit much more meaning than it possesses on its own.
The next big question is this – How? How do you fish and talk. How do you pay attention to someone else and pay attention to your drift? Most importantly, how do you cast next to someone else who is casting?
Here are four things to think about if you want to be deliberate in your approach to getting more out of your time alone together:








